A psychologist who was working with this guy–he’s a sex addict. And the therapist was trying to help him get free. The therapist said “Look, I’m going to draw you some pictures to move you along.” “So he drew a picture with a vertical line with a cross, a line straight down, a line across.” The therapist said to the guy, “What do you see?” He said “I see a woman laying cross-ways on top of a man.” So the therapist drew an X. He said “What do you see?” He said, “I see a man laying cross-ways on top of a woman.” The therapist said to the man, “You’ve got a dirty mind.” “Me? You’re the one drawing dirty pictures.”David Ireland
For more, see Sexual Purity is a Process (David Ireland).